Assalamualikum,
Well, it was just one of those days today, the older ones would not stop arguing with each other. They seem to be growing by the minute and both have their own opinions, none would compromise and give room to the other. Subhanallah, at times being the one to judge can be quite disconcerting, in desperation I separated them both and did the following activity with them.*phew*
I traced their hands, 2 sets for each one of them, then I swapped the hands and gave the older one, the younger one’s hands and vice-versa. I then gave them both a secret mission to write all the good qualities they saw in their sister. The younger one actually needed more coaxing to write the good rather than the bad (lol). Alhamdulillah, this got them thinking as to how much they appreciated even small gestures and how much they actually loved & enjoyed each other. I kind of improvised on an idea I had seen on my fav.resource(family is special hands).
May Allah increase the love in their hearts for each other and Guide them to be more patient and tolerant towards each other.A’ameen
A couple of pics…
Mashallah, they got really creative.*smile*
Anyone got more ideas, do get in touch.
Take care.